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Monday, March 14, 2011

II JOHN

"And this is love: that we walk in obedience to His commands.  As you heard from the beginning, His command is that you walk in love."  (II John 1:6 - II John has no "3:16")


The apostle John wrote this short book of the Bible. the second in a series of three letters he wrote to fellow-believers to emphasize truth and love and to warn them about false teachings.  The book of II John is a letter about love.  The love of God.  The Bible is a love story; it is the most intricate, beautiful love story you will ever read.  The more you read and study it, the more details will be revealed to you. It is a love letter from God to you.



Love is what each of us wants and needs. Our world is filled with words about love - greeting cards, popular music,  magazines - they fill us with dreams of love and give us ideas of some sort of perfect romance.  But, this rarely exists.  We long for love.  We yearn to love and be loved,  but see very few examples of real love living in our world today.  Christ is the direct opposite of the world's ways, the opposite of the world's values.  Christ is the opposite of the self-centered world we live in. Believers in Him need to claim His ideals, reflecting love and acting with love toward one another.

In the book of John, the following conversation takes place, revealing just how important love is: "Hearing that Jesus had silenced the Sadducees, the Pharisees got together.  One of them, an expert in the law, tested Him with this question: 'Teacher, which is the greatest commandment in the Law?'  Jesus replied, 'Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.  This is the first and greatest commandment. And the second is like it: Love your neighbor as yourself.  All the Law and the Prophets hang on these two commandments.' "   (Matthew 22:34-40


So, the command to walk in love is both old and new.   In the Bible the old foreshadows the new and the new reflects back to the old.  In the above quote, Jesus is referring to the book of Deuteronomy wherein God gave mankind instructions on how to live in love... the Torah and the commandments.

The apostle Paul wrote beautifully of love in his first letter to the Corinthians:

"If I speak in the tongue of men and of angels, but have not love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal.  If I have the gift of prophecy and can fathom all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have a faith that can move mountains, but have not love, I am nothing.  If I give all I possess to the poor and surrender my body to the flames, but have not love, I gain nothing.
Love is patient, love is kind.  It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud.  It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs.  Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth.  It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
Love never fails...When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child.  When I became a man, I put childish ways behind me.  Now we see but a poor reflection as in a mirror; then we shall see face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I am fully known.
And now these three remain:  faith, hope, and love.  But the greatest of these is love."  (I Corinthians 13:1-13)

Love God.  Then, love one another.  This is walking in love.

Tuesday, January 4, 2011

PROVERBS 3:16

          "Long life is in her right hand; in her left hand are riches and honor."  (NIV)

     The subject of this verse is wisdom.  If you substitute the subject into the verse, it would read, " Long life is in wisdom's right hand; in wisdom's left hand are riches and honor."  The author is Solomon - the wisest man on earth..  Through the Holy Spirit, Solomon wrote the majority of the Proverbs.  He also collected and compiled the rest of the writings from other great men of his time.  Solomon's goal was to teach people how to take God's principals and apply them to everyday living. Wisdom is the main theme of Proverbs, but there are  lots of topics involved: honesty, self-control, morality, marriage, parenting, how to handle oneself in business - to name a few.  Since God will be the final judge of all we do, applying His wisdom is certainly good advice.
     God can use almost anything to teach His people.  In the story I'm about to share, God used an animal to demonstrate wisdom for me.  Only God could have known what I would need to know...
  


       Years ago when I was a home health nurse, I was making my visits in the countryside of rural Georgia. Because of the seriousness of this particular patient's condition,  he required  daily nursing visits.  And, as often is the case with this type of nurse-patient relationship, I had become good friends with Mr Wellborn, his family, and his pets... several dogs and several cats, all of which I knew by name, and all of which would come running to greet me when I arrived each morning.
     But, one day a new cat greeted me.  He was a beautiful black and silver tabby, with a white "tuxedo" in the front, very expressive eyes, and a constant smile on his little face.  When I opened the car door, the cat jumped in!  He spoke to me.  He didn't say the typical "Meow".  He said,  "Ooomp-yow".  Amused, I removed him from my car, made my nursing visit, and went on with my day.



      Next day, same thing.  Cat into car. "Ooomp-yow".  Out of car. Me into house to do nursing visit. I asked the Wellborns what their new cat's name was, but they explained that he wasn't theirs. He had simply shown up one day, and they could not keep him.
     Same scenario for two weeks.  Open car door.  Cat jumps in.  SO happy to see me!  Those eyes... "Ooomp-yow!"  In my mind I was calling him Spanky.  One day, my patient's daughter, with tears in her eyes, told me that they had found a home for Spanky. A farmer acquaintance of theirs was going to take him to be a barn cat;  he would pick him up in a few days... Then she said, "I think he needs a better home than that.  We have been praying that he would live with you."   SIGH.  Arrangements were made and Spanky came home with me two days later.
  


   And Spanky was a wonderful pet.  Everybody loved him.  So smart.  So funny.  Never, ever, ever got up on a table or a kitchen counter... such a good boy.
     But, then one evening he got hit by a car.  The Vet had to amputate his left arm at the shoulder joint.  He had several other injuries as well, and it was touch-and-go for a while.  I took him home the second day, because the Vet felt he would be more likely to recover at home with me.  I washed him and fed him like an infant.  Talked to him. Sang to him. Despite my efforts, Spanky became very depressed, much like people do when they lose a limb or experience any major change in body image.  I got up every two hours during the night to coax Spanky to eat or drink. And I sobbed aloud the first time he looked at me and said, "Oooomp-yow".
     Spanky, also known as "Mr Oooomp", recovered and got around amazingly well.  He was strong and courageous, and remained very friendly.  He learned to use his right paw for washing, etc. (Most cats are left-handed.)
     Years later, I developed a serious medical problem.  I had to deal with body image changes.  I was unable to use my right arm, and barely able to use my right leg.  I had to learn to use my left hand for washing, eating, etc. Dealing with disability is not easy; you take one step forward, then two backwards again.  You start to think, "Hey, I'm doing okay". And then you have a setback.  And then you cry.
  

       Pets have this wonderful sensitivity about them.  If  I was lonely, or tired, or in pain... all I needed  was that sweet little face nearby... and "Oooomp-yow".  Spanky was there, telling me, "I know just how you feel... It will be alright."  Spanky has since passed away, but I will never forget how much comfort that funny little fellow was.
     I have often told  Spanky's story to demonstrate how wise God is.  He had me nurse Spanky back to health; then, He had Spanky help take care of me.  Spanky learned to completely trust me during his illness, and I learned to completely trust God during mine.  I learned that God would never leave me or forsake me.  God had used a simple animal to reveal to me His wisdom.
     Wisdom.  The application of knowledge.  Nothing happens by chance when you walk with God.